THAT's why HEALING YOU changes the way people treat you!
Ignoring the negative doesn’t mean it isn’t there!
It IS there...continually affecting your experiences, relationships, REactions, etc.
Use the Infinite Healing™ tools to HEAL so you can have positive interactions regardless of what’s happened in the past.
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Apply the Infinite Healing™ tools to HEAL why the world is in the state it’s in and help create Unconditional Love, Unity, and Harmony in the world.
Make statements with intent (aloud or in your head):
"I activate all lessons I and everyone else is to learn from all experiences that create or contribute to a lack of Unconditional Love, Unity, and Harmony in the world."
"I transform all sources of anger, hate, judgment, disappointment, disbelief, chaos, separation, dis-HARMONY, and everything else that creates or contributes to the world having a lack of Unconditional Love, Unity, and Harmony to Unconditional Love & Unconditional Gratitude™."
"I activate all sources that infinitely create Unconditional Love, Unity, and Harmony in the world."
#infinitehealingtm #healingtheworld #thetoolsworkwhenyouusethem
#unconditionalloveunityharmony #dontthinkitsthateasy #whatifitis
What if we could HEAL the mentality that creates or contributes to violence?
One of the key Infinite Healing™ tools is to activate all lessons—because if we don't learn the lessons, we WILL get another chance—guaranteed! So let’s learn the lessons everyone is to learn from the mentality that creates or contributes to violence.
The next Infinite Healing™ tool HEALS by transforming all sources that create or contribute to the mentality that to violence to UL&UG.
#infinitehealingtm #HEALthementality #learnthelessons
#dontthinkitsthateasy #whatifitis #harmonyintheworldismygoal
They say that history repeats itself--but WHY?
We’re seeing a lot of similar issues these days that are similar to what we’ve seen in the past.
The Infinite Healing™ perspective is that it’s because we haven’t learned the lessons from the past. All less-than-desirable experiences are opportunities to learn lessons and to HEAL. If we don’t learn the lessons, from a personal standpoint or from a world-wide one, we WILL get another chance—and another and another and another. Oftentimes, the later opportunities are more blatant. And here we are in 2020.
We can use the Infinite Healing™ tools to learn lessons from current and past experiences. In fact, a key part of HEALING is to learn lessons! Know that lessons don’t always have to be conscious—in fact, learning at a higher-level means that many lessons are not conscious—and much more powerful!
Help humanity learn the lessons from the past so we stop attracting more opportunities to learn!
Learning lessons can be as easy as making a statement with intent (aloud or in your head) - see picture #3.
Don’t think it’s that easy? What if it is?
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Interpretations of experiences vary person by person. People may be in the same experience yet still interpret it differently. It's the interpretation that creates the perspective (and the re-action).
It doesn’t mean either side is wrong—or right. It simply means that they’re different.
For example, a medical professional working in a COVID-19 hotspot likely has a different perspective on the severity of the coronavirus than someone who lives in an area that hasn’t had many cases.
It doesn’t mean either side is wrong—or right. It simply means that they’re different.
What can you do in times of differing beliefs and perspectives?
Use the Infinite Healing™ tools to HEAL what’s triggered in YOU because HEALING the negativity in YOU helps HEAL the world.
Are you an enabler or are you an empower-er?
Empowering teaches someone how to do something.
Enabling does it for them.
Each generation tries to make life just a little bit easier on their children. Our grandparents tried to make our parent’s lives better than what our grandparents had; our parents tried to give us more than what they had; and we often want to make our children’s lives easier than ours was. It all begins with a well-intentioned desire to help. Unfortunately, this help has come in the form of enabling and we have arrived at a generation of entitlement. When someone does something to hurt our children, the parents run to their defense and rather than allowing them to learn lessons from the experience, they are taught that they are a victim of life and other people’s actions, which shows them that they do not have to be accountable for their behavior because what happens TO them is always someone else’s fault.
Empowering teaches that there are consequences to actions and choices.
Enabling often eliminates the consequences of one’s behavior.
Remember that if anyone does not take advantage of the opportunities to learn lessons as they come, they will get another chance. And another, and another, and another. If they continue to ignore those experiences, the later opportunities are often much more severe. It is often less traumatic for a child to learn a lesson at age 10 than at age 20, or at 18 than at 30.
Enabling occurs with more than just children. We can enable employees, bosses, friends, siblings, spouses, and even parents.
Empowering creates independence.
Enabling creates dependence.
Any situation in which you have the choice to empower or enable is an opportunity to learn lessons and to Heal. If you are fixing the problem for the person, you are denying them the opportunity to learn the lessons they were meant to learn from the situation, which means that they WILL get another chance.
Empowering is helping someone through the experience
while allowing them to take responsibility for his or her situation.
Enabling attempts to ease the circumstances for them
and you often end up taking the responsibility on yourself.
Because you are the one accepting responsibility for taking care of them, enabling often creates resentment, regret, frustration, etc. because they now expect you to bail them out, solve their problems, or do it for them. Enabling means you have not given them the opportunity to do it themselves.
Empowering allows others to be accountable for their life.
Enabling puts the accountability for their life on you.
Enabling: when helping isn’t necessarily what's best.
When you have a choice to help someone, decide if you are going to empower or enable. Ask yourself,
“Is what I’m doing keeping the person stuck in the negativity of life or is it helping him/her make his/her life better?”
Your life is what I call your Spiritual Course™. In your Mind you will find the map to what appears in your life because what goes on in your Mind gives energy direction and the emotions triggered by what goes on in your Mind gives energy power.
Your Mind is your consciousness, your subconsciousness, and your unconsciousness. It includes the thoughts, beliefs, judgments, expectations, opinions, etc. that you are aware of and those that you are not.
If only you would realize that all of those negative thoughts, beliefs, judgments, expectations, opinions, etc. you try so hard to ignore are sending the energy in the direction of what you don't want, and if you just paid attention to what is REALLY going through your Mind, it would give you clues as to why you experience many less-than-desirable things.
Everything in your Mind gives energy direction--
whether you HONOR it or not!
Become aware of what is going on in your Mind that is attracting what you don’t want and use the Infinite Healing™ tools to HEAL. HEAL what creates what you don't want so you can naturally attract the things you DO want!
May your HEALING flow in Unconditional Love & Unconditional Gratitude™.
Life can change with one phone call, one appointment, or one road trip. You never know what is going to happen. It’s been said that you are not guaranteed tomorrow but in all reality, you are not guaranteed anything beyond this moment. So…
ENGAGE in everything you do and be present in what is going on NOW,
HEAL the negative when it appears, and
ENJOY each and every moment of life!
Engage in life: if you are having a face-to-face conversation while texting, you are NOT engaged in either conversation. Make a conscious effort to give your full attention to everything you are doing at any given moment. When you are present in each and every moment, you remember more!
HEALING the negative is much different than ignoring it, pretending it isn’t there, or just changing your focus to something positive. Every less-than-desirable experience you have presents opportunities to learn lessons—so learn those lessons and transform all Sources of everything you’re really feeling about them to Unconditional Love and Unconditional Gratitude™—that’s how you Truly HEAL!
It can be a challenge to really ENJOY the little moments in life when the negativity from the past keeps creeping in. Ignoring it doesn’t mean it’s not still there, affecting you and your life. Use the Infinite Healing™ tools to HONOR and HEAL. When you HEAL the negative, the joyful moments in your life are more abundant!
ENGAGE, HEAL, ENJOY! What are you waiting for?
Your beliefs are developed from family, friends, society, and your experiences. They are nothing more than opinions that you trust and are often passed down from generation to generation (which means that beliefs are hereditary). Beliefs are extremely powerful and give energy very strong direction and force.
If you experience something or are told something and have no reason to dis-believe or doubt the information, it can settle into your subconsciousness or unconsciousness as being TRUE, which creates a belief that in many instances you may not even know is there.
Ask yourself: Is it our belief, or is it my belief? Does that belief resonate with me? Does that belief make sense to me? Is that belief worth me believing in?
Whatever you believe is TRUE for YOU!
If a child witnesses racism, especially from someone they hold in high regard (like a mother, father, grandparent, etc.), they learn to believe that judging someone for the color of their skin or for the slant of their eyes or for their nationality is okay. Judgment of others attracts judgment of you. You must HEAL the instinct to judge others!
If you learned that money is always a struggle, financial abundance may be difficult to come by. You must HEAL the belief that money is always a struggle because telling yourself that you are worthy of financial abundance doesn't change your belief!
If you perceived or were told that you were never good enough, you might believe that you’re not good enough. No matter how many times you tell yourself that you ARE good enough, it does not change the deep-seated belief that you are not and may never be. You must HEAL the belief that you're not good enough and create a new belief that you ARE good enough.
If one day you ate tomatoes and got heartburn, you may have developed a belief that tomatoes cause heartburn. Therefore, each time you eat tomatoes you experience heartburn. Because of this belief, you leave very little chance for your Body to re-act differently. You must HEAL the belief that does not support your desires to give your Body a chance to do something different!
On the other hand, if you have been able to find a job effortlessly, you believe that getting a job is easy. If you have always had the money you needed, you may never doubt that you’ll always have the money you need. If you pick up on new things quickly, you believe that learning is easy.
Either way, beliefs are very powerful and create many things in your life. Are your beliefs creating what you want or are they interfering with you having what you want?
Assess what beliefs support your desires and HEAL the ones that don't! The faster you HEAL the ones that create what you don't want, the faster you can have what you do want!
Find more information on the power of beliefs and how to HEAL them in the book Infinite Healing™: Empowering You to HEAL the Negative So the Positive Can Flow Naturally! (pgs. 101-102, 134-136).
My passion is to help you realize how powerful YOU are and how YOU have the power within you to create a life that is filled with Joy, Happiness, Peace, and Harmony!