Use this list to help you identify what you feel or felt during missed opportunities to HEAL. Remember to not get caught up in trying to define it. Infinite Healing™ is very personal and works best when you are unfiltered, when you don’t spend too much time trying to figure it out, and when you use your own description of your situation when you TRANSFORM ALL SOURCES.

As you read through the list, make a quick assessment of the words that resonate with you. When you come across a word that fits, do any memories come to Mind? If so, that experience was an opportunity to HEAL, so make sure you HONOR it, activate all lessons and HEAL everything that was felt at that time (and that you may still feel). 
“I ACTIVATE ALL LESSONS that everyone is to learn from this (that) experience. 
I TRANSFORM ALL SOURCES of (insert emotions here) and everything else I am (was) feeling to 
Unconditional Love & Unconditional Gratitude™."
A - D
-A-
Aaaahhhhhh!
Abandoned
Abused
Accused
Addicted
Afraid
Aggravated
Agitated
Alarmed
Alienated
All of this
Alone
Annoyed
Anxious
Apathetic
Apprehensive
Arrogant
Ashamed
At a loss
At fault
At risk
Atrocious
Attacked
Awful
Awkward

-B-
Bad 
Baffled 
Banned 
Banished
Bashful
Beat 
Beaten down 
Bewildered
Belittled 
Berated 
Betrayed 
Bitterness 
Bizarre 
Blacklisted 
Blackmailed 
Blamed 
Bleak 
Blown away 
Blue
Bored 
Bossed-around 
Bothered 
Bothersome 
Boxed-in 
Broken 
Broken down
Broken-hearted
Bruised 
Brushed-off 
Bugged 
Bullied 
Bummed 
Bummed out 
Burdened 
Burdensome 
Burned 
Burned-out 

-C-
Captive
Careless 
Chaotic 
Cheated 
Choked
Claustrophobic 
Clingy 
Closed 
Clueless
-C- continued
Clumsy 
​Coaxed 
Coerced 
Cold 
Cold-hearted 
Combative 
Competitive 
Compulsive 
Conceited
Concerned 
Compromised
Cast-off
Censored
Chastised
Cheap
Childish
Condemned
Confined
Contradictory
Conflicted 
Confronted 
Confused 
Conned 
Constricted
Consumed 
Contentious 
Controlled by others
Convicted 
Cornered 
Corralled 
Cowardly 
Crabby 
Cramped 
Cranky 
Crappy 
Crazy 
Creeped out 
Criticized 
Cross 
Crippled
Cursed
Crowded 
Crummy 
Crushed 
Cut-down 
Cut-off 

-D-
Damaged 
Damned 
Dazed 
Deceived 
Defamed 
Defeated 
Defective 
Defenseless 
Defiant 
Deficient 
Deflated 
Degenerate
Degraded 
Dehumanized
Dejected 
Demeaned 
Demented 
Demoralized 
Demotivated 
Dependent 
Depleted 
Depraved
Depreciated  
Depressed
Deprived 
Desecrated 
Deserted 
-D- continued
Deserving of (lower-level things like pain, punishment, betrayal, etc.)
Desperate 
Despicable 
Despised 
Destitute 
Destroyed 
Detached Detestable 
Devalued 
Devastated 
Devoid 
Dictated to 
Diminished
Dirty 
Disabled
Disagreeable 
Disappointed in/by
Disappointing 
Disapproved of 
Disbelieved 
Discarded 
Disconnected 
Discontent 
Disconcerted 
Discouraged 
Discredited 
Discriminated 
Disempowered 
Disenchanted 
Disengaged
Disgraced 
Disgruntled 
Disgusted 
Disheartened 
Dishonest 
Dishonorable 
Disillusioned Disliked 
Dismal 
Dismayed 
Disorganized 
Disoriented 
Disowned 
Displeased 
Disposable 
Disregarded 
Disrespected 
Dissatisfied 
Distant 
Distorted 
Distracted
Distrustful  
Distraught 
Distressed 
Disturbed 
Dizzy 
Dominated 
Done 
Doomed 
Double-crossed 
Doubted 
Down 
Down and out 
Down in the dumps 
Downcast
Downhearted 
Downtrodden 
Drained 
Dramatic 
Dread 
Dreary 
Dry 
Dumb 
Dumped 
Dumped on 
Duped
E - N
-E-
Edgy 
Egotistical 
Elusive 
Embarrassed 
Emotional 
Emotionless 
Empty 
Endangered 
Enraged 
Enslaved
Envious
Excluded 
Estranged  
Entangled 
Evaded 
Evasive 
Evicted 
Exasperated
Exhausted 
Exploited 
Exposed 

-F-
Failure
Fake 
Fatigued
Fear 
Fearful 
Fed up 
Filthy
Finished
Flawed 
Flustered
Forced 
Forgetful 
Forgettable 
Forgotten 
Fragile 
Fragmented
Frantic
Freaked out 
Frightened 
Frigid 
Frustrated 
Furious

-G-
Gloomy 
Glum 
Greedy
Grey 
Grief 
Gross 
Grossed-out 
Grouchy 
Grumpy 
Guarded
Guilt-tripped 
Guilty 
Gullible

-H-
Had enough
Harassed 
Hard 
Hard-hearted 
Hassled 
Hate 
Hateful 
Hatred
-H- continued
Haunted 
Heartbroken 
Heartless 
Heavy-hearted 
Helpless 
Hesitant 
Hideous 
Hindered 
Holding a grudge
Hopelessness 
Horrible 
Horrified 
Hostile 
Humiliated 
Hung up 
Hurried 
Hurt 
Hushed
Hypocritical
Hysterical

-I-
Idiotic 
Ignorant 
Ignored 
Imbalanced 
Immature
Impatient
Imposed-upon 
Impotent 
Impoverished
Imprisoned 
In the dumps 
In the way 
Inadequate 
Incapable 
Incompetent 
Incompatible 
Incomplete 
Inconsiderate
Incorrect 
Indecisive 
Indifferent 
Indignant
Ineffective 
Inefficient 
Inept
Inferior 
Inflexible
Infuriated 
Inhibited 
Insane 
Insecure 
Insensitive
Insignificant 
Insincere 
Insufficient 
Insulted 
Intimidated 
Invalidated 
Invisible 
Irrational 
Irresponsible
Irritable 
Irritated

-J-
Jaded
Jealous 
Jerked around 
-J- continued
Jittery
Judged
Judgmental
Jumpy
Just going through the motions

-K-
Kept
Kept apart
Kept away 
Kept out
Kept quiet

-L-
Lacking
Lacking worthiness
Laughed at 
Lazy 
Lectured to 
Left out 
Let down 
Lied about 
Lied to 
Like it’s easier to avoid life
Limited 
Livid
Lonely 
Lonesome 
Longing 
Lost 
Lousy 
Loveless 
Low

-M-
Mad 
Made fun of 
Man handled 
Manipulated 
Materialistic
Mean
Melancholy
Messed with 
Messy 
Miffed 
Minimized
Miserable 
Misled 
Mistaken 
Mistreated 
Mistrusted 
Misunderstood 
Misused
Mixed-up 
Mocked 
Molested 
Mortified

-N-
Nagged 
Naughty
Naive
Needing to avoid conflict
Needy
Negative 
Neglected
Nervous 
Neurotic 
Never good enough
Not good enough
Numb
O - Z
-O-
Obligated 
Obnoxious
Obsessed 
Obstinate
Offended 
On display
On edge  
Opinionated
Opposed 
Out of control
Out of place 
Out of touch 
Outraged
Over-controlled
Over-protected 
Overlooked
Overwhelmed
Overworked

-P-
Pained
Panicked 
Paralyzed
Paranoid 
Pathetic 
Perplexed
Persecuted
Perturbed
Pessimistic 
Petrified 
Phony 
Picked on 
Pissed 
Pissed off 
Pitiful
Played with 
Pooped 
Poor 
Powerless 
Preached to 
Preoccupied 
Prejudiced 
Pressured 
Prosecuted 
Protected
Provoked 
Psychopathic 
Psychotic 
Pulled apart 
Pulled back 
Punished 
Puny
Pushed 
Pushed away 
Put down 
Puzzled

-Q-
Questioned

-R-
Rage 
Raped 
Rattled 
Regret 
-R- continued
Rejected
Remorse
Repulsive
Resented 
Resentful 
Resentment
Resistant
Responsible 
Restless
Restrained
Restricted
Retarded 
Revengeful 
Ridiculed 
Ridiculous 
Robbed 
Rotten
Ruined
Rushed

-S-
Sad 
Sadistic 
Safer to hide away
Sarcastic 
Scared 
Scarred 
Scattered
Scorned
Screwed 
Screwed over 
Screwed up 
Seething
Self-centered 
Self-conscious 
Self-destructive 
Self-hatred 
Selfish 
Shaky
Shallow
Shame
Shocked
Shot down
Shunned
Shy 
Sick
Singled-out 
Slammed
Slandered
Slighted
Slow 
Small 
Smothered 
Sorrow
Snapped at 
Spiteful 
Stagnant
Stereotyped 
Stifled
Stressed 
Stretched 
Stubborn
Stuck
Stuffy
Stumped
-S- continued
Stupid 
Submissive
Sucked dry
Suffocated 
Suicidal 
Superficial 
Superior
Suppressed 
Suspicious

-T-
Taken advantage of
Tense
Terrible
Terrified
Thoughtless
Threatened
Timid
Tired
Tortured
Trapped
Troubled
Tuned out
Turned off

-U-
Unappreciated
Uncertain
Uncomfortable
Undecided
Under nurtured
Underappreciated
Undesirable
Undisciplined
Uneasy
Unfulfilled
Unhappy
Unimportant
Unloved
Unorganized
Unprotected
Unsettled
Unsure
Untrusting
Unwanted
Upset
Uptight
Used
Useless

-V-
Victimized
Violated
Vulnerable
Vengeful

-W-
Wasted
Washed up
Weak
Withdrawn
Worried
Worthless
Wounded
Wrong